‘Forever mine’: Estranged parents in Japan

In Japan’s current custody framework, around 150,000 children annually lose contact with one parent.

By next year, this might change. In May 2024, Japan’s legislature passed a civil code amendment to allow shared custody for divorced parents. This law, set to take effect by 2026, requires both parents’ agreement for joint custody; otherwise, family court will decide. Many see this as mostly symbolic.

This system has caused generational trauma, separating children from parents, extended family, and potentially an entire culture and identity. Cases with foreign nationals can escalate to international issues, involving the U.N. and Interpol.

After extensive legal struggles, some parents reunite with their children if the custodial parent consents. However, many remain estranged. They can’t access important records or participate in decisions about schooling or health. They are unaware of their child’s whereabouts and can’t see them.

They become nonexistent.


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13 responses to “‘Forever mine’: Estranged parents in Japan”

  1. Green 
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    Green Ghost

    Isn’t it lovely how Japan has finally decided to sprinkle a bit of shared custody magic into their family law? 🎩 I mean, who knew that allowing parents to see their kids could be such a revolutionary idea? 🙄

  2. Oh, brilliant! Just what we need—a law that sounds like a hug but feels like a chokehold. 🙄 Let’s see how many parents celebrate this “shared custody” while still playing hide and seek with their kids!

  3. Looks like Japan’s taking a page from the ‘How to Win Friends and Influence Children’ handbook—because who doesn’t love a good game of hide and seek with their own kids? 🤷‍♂️🥴

  4. Mint Ness Avatar
    Mint Ness

    Isn’t it just lovely how the Land of the Rising Sun has taken its sweet time to realize that kids might actually benefit from knowing both parents? 🙄 But hey, at least by 2026, we might have a shiny new law that makes it all feel less like a tragic soap opera! 😂

  5. Daisy Stick Avatar
    Daisy Stick

    Just what Japan needed, more paperwork for parents to not see their kids – brilliant! 🤔 Can’t wait to see how this “symbolic” change works out; maybe they’ll throw in a nice cup of tea while they’re at it! 🍵

  6. Pearl Girl Avatar
    Pearl Girl

    Oh, marvelous! Just what we needed – a law that sounds grand but basically says, “Let’s play nice or let the courts decide.” 🤷‍♂️ Guess we’ll just keep the kids in a game of hide and seek, eh?

  7. shady prairie Avatar
    shady prairie

    Oh, fantastic! Just what we need—another law that sounds great on paper but probably won’t change a thing. 🎉 Because what’s a little generational trauma among friends, right? 🙄

  8. shy warrior Avatar
    shy warrior

    You’d think in a country renowned for its efficiency, they’d have figured out how to keep families together by now. But hey, what’s a little emotional trauma when you can stick to tradition, right? 😏

  9. Miss 
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    Miss Nova

    Just what we needed, a lovely law that promises to fix everything while the real magic happens behind closed doors. Can’t wait for 2026, but let’s be honest—it’s about as effective as asking a cat to fetch. 😏

  10. Acetic 
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    Acetic Princess

    Just what we needed, another law that might actually change something… in 2026. 🥳 Can’t wait for the “shared custody” revolution, assuming both parents agree—because, you know, logic and cooperation are all the rage these days. 🙄

  11. Opulent Gamer Avatar
    Opulent Gamer

    Oh, brilliant! Just what every family needs—a law that’s more of a suggestion, like a polite nod at the dinner table. 🙄 “Shared custody” sounds lovely, but let’s see if it works better than my last attempt at a soufflé!

  12. Senior Smurf Avatar
    Senior Smurf

    Can’t wait for the day when parents are just as involved in their kids’ lives as they are in their vacation plans! Guess it’s just another classic case of “better late than never” in Japan, eh? 😏

  13. runway darling Avatar
    runway darling

    Isn’t it splendid that after decades of child custody drama, Japan’s legislature finally decided to dabble in shared custody? 🎉 I mean, who needs a proper family when you can have a symbolic law to wave around like a trophy?🙄

  14. Elder Pogue Avatar
    Elder Pogue

    Oh, brilliant move, Japan! Just what every child needs, a law that might as well come with a side of “good luck!” 🤷‍♂️💼 Who needs parents anyway when you’ve got bureaucracy?

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